In recent times, the use of more positive forms
of behaviour modification is advocated such as persuasion, appeal to
reason and good judgment plus the reward for desirable forms of
behaviour. In addition, there is also the belief that there should be
unconditional acceptance and regard for the learner and recognition that
the child is worthy and should be treated not as an animal but a human
being with feelings.
It is the believed that if these strategies are
used, children will be willing to attend and be active partakers in the
education system. Teachers and students unintentionally inflict
emotional pains on students. For instance in an attempt to punish
students for misbehaviour, teachers usually ask students to kneel or
stand with one foot in front of the classroom. In one school visited,
students reported that their teacher usually ask them to demonstrate as
if they were “riding a bicycleâ€. The mere fact that they are being
punished in front of other students lower their self-esteem and if
constantly punished that way may lead to poor performance, hostility,
apathy and eventual dropping out of school. Other punishments adopted
include threatening or terrorizing students as well as belittling them.
Instances abound in schools where teachers use sinister languages in
addressing students such words/phrases like ‘idiot’, ‘never do well’, ‘I
know you’ll never perform better’, etc. this use of words/phrases not
only belittles the child but may ridicule and lead to lack of
concentration and withdrawal of students to themselves and eventual
dislike of school.
Confining students to dark rooms is used in many
schools as a form of punishment. In one school, a child reported that
those who did not pay fees were packed into the assembly hall and locked
up until the school was over. The school ended up punishing innocent
children instead of their parents whose responsibility it is to pay the
fees. The children are not only embarrassed but missed out on what was
taught during those periods of confinement as those lessons would not be
repeated again even after they had had their fees paid. Teachers have
also been found to fail to provide love, support, care and guidance to
children under their care. A particular instance was reported where a
child had stayed for the first three years in school and could not
handle a pencil. On interview, it was found that the teacher completely
abandoned the child because he was slow in learning. It took the
intervention of a lesson teacher and parents extra coaching to train the
child to write. This shows the inability of the teacher to provide
appropriate guidance needed by the child.
Bullying is another form
of emotional abuse that takes place in schools. The senior or older
students who should provide emotional support for the younger and new
students easily bully them. This can easily affect the children and make
them withdraw from associating with other peers leading to
personal-social maladjustment. The points enumerated show that
teachers/school authorities intentionally/unintentionally indulge in
emotional abuse which ultimately affects the child’s ability to learn.
This can also distract them from gaining meaningfully from the process
of education leading to eventual abandonment of school. Learning can
only take place in a conducive environment that promoted cordial
relationship between the teacher and the learner. Thus the United
Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child and the African Union
Charter on the Rights and Welfare of the Child provide for the
protection of the child against physical and psychological abuse,
discrimination and all forms of threat, be they with weapons or words.